Calling can sometimes appear aggressive or catch people off guard. We get it — if you learned the ins-and-outs of dating decades ago, before you got married, getting back into the swing of modern swiping and digital connections presents a steep learning curve. Five minutes sounds like an eternity, especially if you hate to talk on the phone. The app makes the call for you to ensure your privacy. This strangely old-fashioned idea is the brainchild of year-old Sam Ballantyne, who was a classical musician before he turned his attention to developing apps. After you meet, of course, you can chat away! But if your post-divorce goals include meeting a partner to share your life with — a relationship that goes the distance, investing in the new rules of dating should be your next priority.